All questions
Plain answers about starting, sessions, fees, confidentiality and what happens if something isn’t right. If yours isn’t here, ask me directly.
Starting
How do I know if counselling is right for me?
You don’t need to be sure. The free call is there so we can talk it through, and it’s fine to decide it isn’t for you, or isn’t for now.
What happens on the free call?
We talk for about 15 minutes by phone. You tell me a little about what is going on, I explain how I work, and you can ask whatever you like. There is no pressure to book anything.
Who do you work with?
Adults of any age, from young adults to older adults, one to one. I work in English and in Greek.
What if I don’t know what to say?
That is completely fine, and very common. You don’t need to prepare anything or find the right words. Start wherever feels easiest, even if it is just “I’m not sure where to begin”, and we go from there at your pace.
How quickly can I start?
I reply to messages within 24 hours. After the free call, if we both think it is a good fit, we agree a day and time for a first session.
Sessions
How long is a session?
50 minutes. Sessions start and finish at the agreed time.
How many sessions will I need?
It varies. You can come for a set number of sessions or leave it open-ended, and we talk about which suits you. We review how it is going as we work, and you can stop whenever you choose.
What is integrative counselling?
It means I am trained in more than one way of working and draw on whichever fits you, instead of applying a single method to everyone. Underneath, the approach is humanistic and psychodynamic: I am interested in you as a whole person, and in how your past shapes the present.
Will you give me advice or tell me what to do?
No. I won’t hand you instructions, and I won’t try to fix things for you. I help you think clearly, notice what keeps repeating, and work out what you want to do about it.
How often will we meet?
Most people come weekly at the same time, which keeps the work moving. If you would prefer to meet less often, we can arrange sessions one at a time around what is free in my diary.
What if it doesn’t feel like it is working?
Tell me. We hold regular reviews for exactly this, and you can raise it at any point. We may change how we work, or decide that someone else would be a better fit. Saying so won’t affect how I work with you.
Can I take a break, or stop?
Yes, whenever you choose, and you don’t have to give a reason. If you can, I’d suggest a final session to round things off, but that is up to you.
What happens if you are away or unwell?
For planned time off I give as much notice as I can, and your regular time is kept for you. If I have to cancel at short notice, I will tell you as soon as possible and offer another time that week where I can.
Online sessions
Which platform do you use?
Zoom. I send you a link before each session, and it opens in your browser or in the Zoom app, on a phone, tablet or computer.
What if I don’t have a private room?
A private space where you won’t be overheard is essential, because confidentiality is the foundation of our work. If that isn’t possible for you at the moment, then unfortunately it isn’t the right time for sessions, and I’m not able to offer them without it. If your situation changes, you are very welcome to get in touch.
Are sessions recorded?
No. I don’t record sessions and I ask you not to either. It is easier to speak freely when nothing is being captured.
Fees and cancellations
How much does a session cost?
Please see Fees.
How do I pay?
By bank transfer on the day of each session, either before or after.
What if I need to cancel or move a session?
With more than 48 hours’ notice there is no charge, and moving a session is usually simple. Inside 48 hours I will look for another time that week. If I can’t find one, the full fee applies.
What happens if I miss a session or run late?
If you are late, I wait for 10 minutes and we use whatever time is left. The session still ends at the usual time. If I haven’t heard from you by then, the cancellation policy applies.
What if I can’t pay on time?
I send a reminder after three days. If a fee is still unpaid 48 hours before your next session, that session is cancelled without charge and we pause until the balance is settled. If money becomes difficult, please tell me and we can look at the options together.
Are there any extra costs?
Rarely. If you ask for something that takes significant time, such as a report for another professional, I may charge a fair fee, and we agree it first.
Confidentiality and records
Is what I say confidential?
Yes. The only person I routinely discuss my work with is my supervisor, which is a requirement of the profession, and no names or identifying details are shared.
When would you break confidentiality?
Only where I am ethically or legally obliged to: a risk to your life or someone else’s, a child or an adult at risk who needs protection, or a legal requirement such as a court order. I would aim to talk to you first, and I share only the minimum necessary.
What notes do you keep?
Brief session notes and the details I need for our work, such as how to contact you. They are stored securely, only I have access, and nothing is kept on paper. Records are kept for seven years after our last session, as my insurance requires. You can ask to see yours at any time, free of charge.
Will my GP be told I am seeing you?
No. I take your GP’s details and an emergency contact as a precaution, in case I ever had a serious concern for your safety. In almost every case they go unused. If you want me to share something with your GP, I ask for your written consent first.
Between sessions
Can I contact you between sessions?
Yes, for practical things such as changing an appointment. Email is best. I don’t offer therapeutic support between sessions; that belongs in the sessions themselves.
What if I am in crisis?
I am not a crisis service and can’t respond in an emergency. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999. Other services that can help at any hour are on the urgent support page.
Can I follow you on social media?
You are welcome to follow any professional page I run. To protect your privacy I don’t accept friend requests, follow clients back, or exchange messages with clients on social media.
If something isn’t right
What if I am unhappy with something?
Please tell me. I would always prefer to hear it, and raising it won’t affect how I work with you. If you would rather not talk to me, or you are not satisfied afterwards, you can contact my professional body, the BACP (opens in a new tab), at any time. You don’t need my permission and you don’t have to tell me.
Whenever you feel ready
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